| Location | Bristol |
| Age | 16 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 22/04/1991 |
| Date of Death | 20/03/2008 |
| Visitors | 5,490 since 18/09/2009 |
| Creator |
Clare Hayley Clerdy - 22nd April 1992 - 19 March 2OO8.
I Cant believe your gone. As time goes on it doesn't get any easier. I became a mother to Clare when i was 15, it was a shock discovering i was pregnant at that age but i wouldn't change her for the world.
Clare was a pretty normal teenager, loved Fridays, her friends, shopping and of course boys. Things we're pretty normal until a night on 19th March when Clare came home in floods of tears she went straight up to her room and stayed there for the remainder of the evening when i went to check on her, i asked her what was the matter and it seemed she had an arguement with her boyfriend. The two of them had been going out since she was 14 and she was very close to him, she had a bad arguement..I sat for a few hours and comforted her and dried her tears away, got her some toast and tea and then she went to sleep.
The next morning i went to wake Clare for school as she'd stayed on to go to sixth form, she looked very white but i just put it down to how upset she got the other night i called her name a few times and then noticed she wasn't breathing, i called in Clares dad and he checked for a pulse, she'd taken an overdose of some paracetomols in her drawer i let her have for her period pain the previous week.
We called the ambulance, and they took us straight to hospital and tried to revive Clare..They took us into a side room and we we're told that they'd done everything they could but she wasn't responding. The coroner gave us a verdict of suicide.
There are so many things i wont witness, ill never get to witness our first grandchild from you, your wedding or you growing old. It truely hurts me to know you we're taken so soon before your time.
I miss you so so much, Our lives are not the same without your smiling face and singing.
Sleep well and look after your great grandparents up there and we'll meet again soon.
Mummy, Daddy, Grandma, Grandad xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CLARE
**ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ*THOSE WE LOVE **ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Clare
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.
We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CLARE
______000000
_____00000000
____0000000000
____0000000000
_____00000000
______000000
_________0
_________0
________0
_______0______HAPPY BIRTHDAY
_______0
________0_____HAPPY BIRTHDAY
__________________________________000000
____________________0____________00000000
____________0______000____0_____0000000000
___________00_____000_____00____0000000000
___________000_____I_____000_____00000000
____________I_____000_____I_______000000
___________000____000____000_________0
___________000____000____000_________0
___________000____000____000________0
___________000____000____000_______0
___________000____000____000_______0
_______0000000000000000000000000
_______0000000000000000000000000
_______0000000000000000000000000
_______0000000000000000000000000
__00000000000000000000000000000000000
bigs hugs from me to you and your family
and friends that you miss you ever day but
in our hearts forever you will not be forgotin
all my love hugs and xxxx from me Sylvie
mommy of Samantha Belanger and
Granddaughter of Albert and Marie-Jeanne
Belanger take care bye for now.
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
**ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ*THOSE WE LOVE **ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ
♥AXC♥AXC♥AXC♥AXC♥AXC♥AXC♥AXC♥AXC♥AXC♥AXC♥
Tributes for Week Commencing 24th January
(’’ ♥’’) ---------(.)””(.)…..All
--’C(’’ ♥’’)-----( ’o’, )…….Angels
-----’’J(’’ ♥’’)--.()♥ ()………..Are
-----------’R’’---(_)-(_)…………Precious
FOR MONDAY
ღBest and most beautiful
ღThings in the world cannot
ღBe seen or even touched.
ღThey must be felt with the heart.
FOR TUESDAY
ღGone yet not forgotten,
ღAlthough we are apart,
ღYour spirit lives within me,
ღForever in my heart.
FOR WEDNESDAY
ღA gift for such a little while,
ღYour loss just seems so wrong,
ღYou should not have left before us,
ღIt’s with loved ones you belong.
FOR THURSDAY
ღPerhaps they are not
ღStars in the sky,
ღBut rather openings
ღWhere our loved ones shine down
ღTo let us know they are happy.
FOR FRIDAY
ღ The Watcher ღ
They always leaned to watch for us
Anxious if we were late,
In winter by the window,
In summer by the gate.
And though we mocked them tenderly
Who had such foolish care,
The long way home would seem more safe,
Because they waited there.
Their thoughts were all so full of us,
They never could forget,
And so I think that where they are
They must be watching yet.
Waiting ‘til we come home to them
Anxious if we are late
Watching from Heaven’s window
Leaning from Heaven’s gate.
FOR SATURDAY
ღ As We Look Back ღ
As we look back over time
We find ourselves wondering .....
Did we remember to thank you enough
For all you have done for us?
For all the times you were by our sides
To help and support us .....
To celebrate our successes
To understand our problems
And accept our defeats?
Or for teaching us by your example,
The value of hard work, good judgement,
Courage and integrity?
We wonder if we ever thanked you
For the sacrifices you made.
To let us have the very best?
And for the simple things
Like laughter, smiles and times we shared?
If we have forgotten to show our
Gratitude enough for all the things you did,
We're thanking you now.
And we are hoping you knew all along,
How much you meant to us.
FOR SUNDAY
ღ To Those Whom I Love and Those Who Love Me ღ
When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy that I have had so many years
I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness
I think you for the love each have shown
But now it is time I travelled on alone
So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It is only for a while that we must part
So bless the memories in your heart
I will not be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call and I will come
Though you can not see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you will hear
All of my love around you soft and clear
Then, when you must come this way alone
I will greet you with a smile and a
"Welcome Home"
AXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXC
……………..Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
……………Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
AXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXCAXC
heartbroken mum
I I have only just joined this site and cant"t believe how many broken families there are. So sorry to read about your precious daughter, why these things happen we will never find out in this life. Our girls will be dancing the nights away along with all the others. Sending hugs and kisses.x
Sadness has come.
It has spread darkness over happiness we once knew.
So now we will hold our hart in two.
However life will bloom again.
We will not give up we will smile
Flowers will come
Blue skys appear
Life will be beautifull
Even though you are not here
For when we meet you
Whenever and wherever that may be
We can say we have lived
and i know you will smile and say
I am proud of thee.
♥ .•**•.. ♥ .•**•.. ♥ .•**•.*• ♥ .•**•.. ♥ .•**•.. ♥ .•**•.*• ♥
...{`--..-.'_,} for all our loved ones
.{;..\,__...-'/}
.{..'-`.._;..-'; always on our minds
....`'--.._..-'
........,--\\..,-"-. but
........`-..\(..'-...\
...............\.;---,/ forever in our hearts
..........,-""-;\
......../....-'.)..\ xxxx
........\,---'`
♥ .•**•.. ♥ .•**•.. ♥ .•**•.*• ♥ .•**•.. ♥ .•**•.. ♥ .•**•.*•
sorry for your loss
I just wanted to let you know, how sorry I am for the loss of your loved one. The death of young people is always very difficult, especially if it is by their own choice. It's a shame she decided to end her life over love problems, she probably would have had many more romantic encounters over her life time. Love can make people do unrational things, as we all know. She was a very beautiful girl with a great smile and mesmerizing/soulful eyes. Her pictures show a young lady that was full of life and appreared to enjoy having fun. She had so much ahead of her to experience and that what's make these things so hard. I will pray for your daughter and that both of you will find the strength and courage to carry on. JHM
An angel
God must have had a hidden plan, when he took an angel so pretty as you. Be at peace, and pray your at peace
love and respect to your family xxsue
Clare, what a beautiful girl you are and always will be. I hope you are peace and always safe from harm now sweetheart. Take care of your mum and dad always. God bless you with love Sarah xx
r.i.p x
sorry to hear this, such a beautiful girl too :( sooo sorry to family and friends she is missed by many dont know you babe but bet u was a lovely girl sorry to hear
love louise xxxxxx
Using the options below you can add this memorial to your personal garden.
| I am Clare's ... | |
| Add to Garden: | |
| Notifications: | Text Message |
There have been 144 candles lit for Clare.
