| Location | Bristol |
| Age | 16 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 22/04/1991 |
| Date of Death | 20/03/2008 |
| Visitors | 2,126 since 18/09/2009 |
| Creator |
Clare Hayley Clerdy - 22nd April 1992 - 19 March 2OO8.
I Cant believe your gone. As time goes on it doesn't get any easier. I became a mother to Clare when
i was 15, it was a shock discovering i was pregnant at that age but i wouldn't change her for the
world.
Clare was a pretty normal teenager, loved Fridays, her friends, shopping and of course boys. Things
we're pretty normal until a night on 19th March when Clare came home in floods of tears she went
straight up to her room and stayed there for the remainder of the evening when i went to check on
her, i asked her what was the matter and it seemed she had an arguement with her boyfriend. The two
of them had been going out since she was 14 and she was very close to him, she had a bad
arguement..I sat for a few hours and comforted her and dried her tears away, got her some toast and
tea and then she went to sleep.
The next morning i went to wake Clare for school as she'd stayed on to go to sixth form, she looked
very white but i just put it down to how upset she got the other night i called her name a few times
and then noticed she wasn't breathing, i called in Clares dad and he checked for a pulse, she'd
taken an overdose of some paracetomols in her drawer i let her have for her period pain the previous
week.
We called the ambulance, and they took us straight to hospital and tried to revive Clare..They took
us into a side room and we we're told that they'd done everything they could but she wasn't
responding. The coroner gave us a verdict of suicide.
There are so many things i wont witness, ill never get to witness our first grandchild from you,
your wedding or you growing old. It truely hurts me to know you we're taken so soon before your
time.
I miss you so so much, Our lives are not the same without your smiling face and singing.
Sleep well and look after your great grandparents up there and we'll meet again soon.
Mummy, Daddy, Grandma, Grandad xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
An angel
God must have had a hidden plan, when he took an angel so pretty as you. Be at peace, and pray your at peace
love and respect to your family xxsue
Clare, what a beautiful girl you are and always will be. I hope you are peace and always safe from harm now sweetheart. Take care of your mum and dad always. God bless you with love Sarah xx
r.i.p x
sorry to hear this, such a beautiful girl too :( sooo sorry to family and friends she is missed by many dont know you babe but bet u was a lovely girl sorry to hear
love louise xxxxxx
Mom, Please Listen
Mom, please listen to me
as I take the time to write.
I see parents struggling daily,
Their pain is such a fight...
All of us who've gone
And left the rest of you behind...
We're ok, Mom, I promise ...
Heaven is beautiful and God is kind.
You used to tell me that one day
God would call and take you home.
You told me you'd make me strong
So I would stand tall when alone.
But things happen, Mom
That does not go in our plans,
I wasn't scared, Mom,
When God held out his hand.
I didn't want to leave you,
I didn't have time to say good-bye
When the angels said, "Come with us"
There wasn't time to question why.
I've watched you daily, Mom.
It hurts to see you cry.
I don't want you to be unhappy,
Just because we didn't get to say good-bye.
Tell others what I'm telling you,
So many parents need to know
That Earth was just a layover
We had another place to go.
I know you miss me, Mom
I know your heart was broken in two.
But God really neededme
Because my earthly life was through.
I''m always alongside you...
I smile and touch your hair.
I whisper "Mom, I love you"
You just can't see me there.
I'm the one that gently touches you
On your shoulder when you're sad.
I'm happy now that you finally found
God again, and are no longer mad.
Tell the parents, Mom, for me
That all of us kids are okay.
God had plans for our lives
When he called us home that day.
I love you, Mom, I always will
And remember I'm not far away.
We're going to be together
When God calls out your name.
LOVE ALWAYS ALISON XXXXXX
Angels
*♥ღ*♥ღ *♥ღ*♥ღ♥ღ*♥ღ*♥ღ*♥ღ
I looked out of the window
About twelve o'clock last night
And saw two shooting stars
Up in the sky
And as I stood and watched them
Right before my eyes
They opened up Heavens gates
Where angels stood inside
Then I saw you standing next to them
And you where wearing wings
And right above your head I saw
A Stunning golden ring
That sparkled in the distance
Then shone right down on me
Now every time I close my eyes
Your face is all I see
An angel up in heavens
Beyond the skies above
Watching over all of us
Filling our hearts with love
*♥ღ*♥ღ *♥ღ*♥ღ♥ღ*♥ღ*♥ღ*♥ღ
Meek Mellow
an angel now clare xx
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Who's To Blame? - by Christine Ross
Who's to blame for suicide?
The question often heard.
Someone always points a finger
And they say such hurtful words.
They never do consider that
It's caused from a disease.
Depression and Bipolar
Are just a few of these.
Some die from being murdered.
Some die from accidents.
Some die from pneumonia,
But none of it makes sense.
Sometimes body parts wear out
Way before their time.
Some lose the cancer battle,
But it all seems so unkind.
No matter how they leave us
It never is their choice.
There's something deep within them
That has a bigger voice.
So please refuse to take the blame
For the THING that took your child.
Although others point their fingers.
They haven't walked your mile.
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